"snowflake conservatives"
Respectfully, "!Redundancy Alert!"
I'd certainly like to think that this has anything to do with anything...other than the penis. It doesn't.
And I try to imagine men being intimidated by that particular...object...and it just becomes more just baffling, not less. I should think most men would want women to think that's the "average penis".
My conclusion turns to the problem being women who were told to just ignore 'it' in bed, and let men do as they wish while they lie there quietly. And I'd guess that many of them have never even seen their own husband's...organ. I've certainly heard of women who claimed that their husband has never seen them unclothed, and they've never engaged in sex other than in the dark.
I know it's a stereotype, but sometimes stereotypes have an origin.